A Montessori classroom has freedom within limits. The freedom
exists for children to choose their own work, follow their own
interests and work at their pace.
The limits are those necessary for the harmony of the community.
the children are expected to be caring, considerate and courteous;
aggression, bad manners, swearing and destructiveness are not
tolerated. The children are always encouraged to consider the
person's point of view, respect his or her rights, and solve
problems with discussion and reason.
As a School, we do not believe in physical
punishment, but rather endeavour to ensure that the children are
impressed with the needs of reality, not with the power of the
adults. We use the logical consequences of a child's misbehaviour to
change that behaviour.
The younger children have "Grace and Courtesy" lessons. These
give the children the chance to practise appropriate ways of
behaving and also to see other children model various responses to
situations.
With older children, class meetings are held regularly to give
the children opportunities for discussing grievances, solving
conflicts and being exposed to how other people feel in given
situations.
If a child's behaviour is such that it must be dealt with
immediately, then they are isolated from the group. They are placed
in a situation where there may be books to look at but no real work
to do, on the understanding that they return to the group whenever
they are willing to behave in an acceptable way.
Kindness, but firmness, and the example of the other children in
the class avoid most problems and ensure a happy and harmonious
classroom.